tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8019771243429501315.post5010873480000158727..comments2023-09-27T01:02:14.338-07:00Comments on BBRD: Islamo-Erotica, Female Sexuality and Closed CulturesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8019771243429501315.post-13875993235616632432010-06-02T14:58:19.413-07:002010-06-02T14:58:19.413-07:00@Mariya You know I went over my own article again ...@Mariya You know I went over my own article again to find some extremism in there :P ... to be honest, every word I write in there is an experience. Nothing is blown out of proportion. Rebel for the sake of being rebellious is downright lame, plus a rebel needs motivation, it doesn't just wake up one day. <br />It's interesting what you said about speaking out loud cuz when you speak softly, no one listens to you, or they just can't hear you. When you start screaming to attain some acknowledgment, they start telling you quiet down. It's an apologist attitude. And it can get a bit annoying.<br />I don't consider myself perfect and continue to search. But people's holier-than-thou attitude and constant knit-picking is also a major turn off. I do not endorse anything but the truth, and the search for it. I can NOT stand people who know what you're talking about, accept it, but rather stay quiet about it, and even worse, tell you to keep it low as well. <br />There is too much horror in this world. Everyones' experiences may not be the same, but they do not invalidate the diverse experiences. What I went through, perhaps you can't imagine. What you speak of, perhaps I can't make sense of. But that's ok. I am loud only because I have faced the extreme - every action has an equal and opposite reaction. If nothing else, it's pure physics.<br /><br />@Komal Figuring out what is too much is complicated. It goes both ways. The problem is, right now we're saturated and over-flowing with strange religious dogmas that are mullah-spewed. And to kind of get even and catch-up, we need to speed up. Awareness is never too much. Though would you give me an example of how too much awareness can be harmful? Perhaps I am wrong.Emaanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15082602668599710659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8019771243429501315.post-1066373993724962352010-06-02T11:28:23.268-07:002010-06-02T11:28:23.268-07:00To some extent, I agree with you. Awareness is nec...To some extent, I agree with you. Awareness is necessary, though too much of it can be very harmful.Komal Alihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18033176655613205881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8019771243429501315.post-7858455964314750502010-05-19T07:34:59.116-07:002010-05-19T07:34:59.116-07:00Hi you can call me Mariya only :p
Sorry this one ...Hi you can call me Mariya only :p<br /><br />Sorry this one is the first of your blogs that I came across so do not really know you well. Nice to know that you reject extremism wherever you find it. Just watch out you don't fall for it yourself.<br /><br />Your concerns are justified to an extent. But what you do not understand is there is a right time to do and know things and what I am getting from you is your supporting to speak out loud to everyone about everthing.<br /><br />I may not understand you and you may not understand me and I am perfectly ok with that. I am not a kind of person who wants the whole world think like her. I appreciate the diversity in thoughts. Be a rebel but not for the sake of being different.<br /><br />Stand by the right and endorse the truth. Do not consider yourself perfect and keep trying to be better.<br /><br />A quote that I follow and that is by me: Take over your emotions before they take over you.<br /><br />Cheers for diversity! :DneRdianshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00400304145109029365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8019771243429501315.post-26706166714641693982010-05-18T16:07:42.904-07:002010-05-18T16:07:42.904-07:00Hello @Mariya girl
Welcome to my rebel land. If y...Hello @Mariya girl<br /><br />Welcome to my rebel land. If you've gone through the rest of my blog, you should be getting a gist of my rejection of extremism of BOTH worlds. I neither advocate the eastern culture, nor the western. both have issues. besides, i dont know what you consider mature, but i've seen college-going girls in pakistan hiding in corners and drawing willies to enlighten the less fortunate of what they look like. maybe you are pro-(female)children-scaring to have them freak out at something red. children realize their sexuality at a very young age, and believe it or not, they know what their hoo-hoos feel like. and to one day realize that you've somehow damaged it, and cant even talk to your mother about it becuz it is "shameful" .. is not a very delightful feeling.<br /><br />I am not asking for a full on Mr.Banana and Ms. Latex demonstration. Neither is that required. But mothers do need to make their daughters feel a little comfortable with talking, and explaining things. if we can teach girls that being alone with a boy is haram and God will punish you badly for it. we can also teach them things that will benefit them positively. we dont have to look at the world in black and whites. embrace the grays darling! they're sophisticated and charming :D<br /><br />my love to a rebel fellow who appreciates me rebelling :DEmaanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15082602668599710659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8019771243429501315.post-8521564885297290302010-05-15T14:57:28.748-07:002010-05-15T14:57:28.748-07:00Hi I am a girl and I totally disagree with what yo...Hi I am a girl and I totally disagree with what you said.<br /><br />We have witnessed whats happening in the west when you educate kids about sex. Out of curiosity they want to experience it and then everything goes wrong...ok here we do not know about it when we are "too" young but when we get to know atlest we are mature enough to understand it.<br /><br />And about that art piece..its totally disgusting! Expressing yourself doesn't mean saying out everything loud! I undersatnd that we too are from entirely different backgrounds and we have our own ideas shaped according to our situations but you also need to undersatnd that you are a conservative yourself. Your blog presents one notion that you have "Whatever a common Muslim does or thinks is wrong and I need to change things..twist and turn them untill I fit into it!"<br /><br />Although I enjoyed reading you and I like people who have different ideas than me and who think differently...you are a rebel like me :)Mariyanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8019771243429501315.post-52348271390366608872010-05-14T16:26:30.273-07:002010-05-14T16:26:30.273-07:00@Ali It's not a research article, it's a b...@Ali It's not a research article, it's a blog-piece - it is about me and my experiences. You need a coca-cola too! Relax. Then again, you're a man. Who am I kiddin'? <br />Writing neutral about this topic. ha ha. Go ahead, tell the world. All this what I say, is a pathetic figment of my imagination and has no base in the real world!Emaanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15082602668599710659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8019771243429501315.post-46895891111567197042010-05-14T15:02:53.296-07:002010-05-14T15:02:53.296-07:00makes no reall sense. feelings of the writer are t...makes no reall sense. feelings of the writer are too noticeable on the wordings used overall. one has to be nuetral beinf writer on such kind of a topic.<br />regads<br />AliAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8019771243429501315.post-67422902205984321842010-05-05T09:11:57.671-07:002010-05-05T09:11:57.671-07:00Are you objecting that the subject of sexuality do...Are you objecting that the subject of sexuality does not exist in Islam, or are you just ignoring the fact that it is "closed cultures" that I am really talking about here?<br />Baseless it truly isn't, because this is a reality of several. You may not think or believe so, but then you make up that tiny 1% of the population that I am quite proud of.<br /><br />p.s. thank you for at least not posting anonymously, and not making guess that you're a man.Emaanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15082602668599710659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8019771243429501315.post-39884650242183612982010-05-05T01:45:34.141-07:002010-05-05T01:45:34.141-07:00This is a baseless article, totally reflecting the...This is a baseless article, totally reflecting the ideas of the writer. Religions never provide such deep analysis on sexual relationships among its followers; this is a very personal thing and those Muslim men, who express such conservativeness, are reflecting their own ideas not of their religion.Zulfiqarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02642391604839259904noreply@blogger.com